How Do You Know If Drinking Has Become a Problem, and What Helps?

Drinking may have become a problem if you often drink more than you planned, can’t cut back when you try, or keep drinking even though it hurts your health, work, or relationships. Doctors call this alcohol use disorder (AUD), and they diagnose it when a person has 2 or more of 11 symptoms in the past year (NIAAA). The good news is that most people with AUD can benefit from some form of treatment, such as counseling, medicine, and support groups (NIAAA).

Do not stop drinking suddenly on your own if you have been drinking heavily for a long time. Alcohol withdrawal can be life-threatening, so talk to a doctor first (NIAAA). Call 911 if someone in withdrawal has a seizure, a fever, severe confusion, hallucinations, or an irregular heartbeat (MedlinePlus).

What counts as heavy drinking or binge drinking?

Binge drinking means 5 or more drinks for men, or 4 or more for women, in about 2 hours (NIAAA). Heavy drinking means 5 or more drinks on any day or 15 or more a week for men, and 4 or more on any day or 8 or more a week for women (NIAAA). Over time, both patterns raise the risk of alcohol use disorder (NIAAA).

These limits count standard drinks, not glasses or cans. In the U.S., one standard drink has about 14 grams of pure alcohol (NIAAA). A 12-ounce bottle of 10% craft beer counts as 2 standard drinks (NIAAA).

Drinking too much does not always mean addiction. The CDC notes that most people who drink excessively do not have alcohol use disorder, and many can cut back without specialized treatment (CDC). Your liver can only process small amounts of alcohol at a time (CDC); read more in how long alcohol stays in your system.

What are the signs of alcohol use disorder?

The main sign is losing control: drinking more than you meant to, or not being able to stop even when it causes problems (NIAAA). Health care providers use 11 questions from the DSM-5, a manual doctors use to diagnose mental health conditions, to check for AUD (NIAAA). This list is not a self-test or a diagnosis, so bring your answers to a doctor.

In the past year, have you (NIAAA):

1. Ended up drinking more, or longer, than you meant to?
2. Wanted to cut down or stop more than once, or tried to, but couldn’t?
3. Spent a lot of time drinking, being sick from drinking, or getting over it?
4. Wanted a drink so badly you couldn’t think of anything else?
5. Found that drinking, or being sick from it, got in the way of home, family, work, or school?
6. Kept drinking even though it caused trouble with family or friends?
7. Given up or cut back on activities you cared about so you could drink?
8. More than once gotten into risky situations while or after drinking, like driving or swimming?
9. Kept drinking even though it made you feel depressed or anxious, worsened a health problem, or after a memory blackout?
10. Had to drink much more than before to get the same effect?
11. Had withdrawal symptoms, like trouble sleeping, shakiness, sweating, nausea, a racing heart, or a seizure, as alcohol wore off?

Severity is based on how many of these a person has (NIAAA). Any of them may be cause for concern, and the more you have, the more urgent the need for change (NIAAA). A provider can look at the number, pattern, and severity of symptoms and help you decide what to do next (NIAAA).

Some people keep up with work and family while drinking too much. See signs of a high-functioning alcoholic and how to tell if you need alcohol rehab.

What does heavy drinking do to your health?

Excessive drinking can cause harm right away, such as injuries and alcohol poisoning, and over time it can lead to cancer, liver disease, and heart disease (CDC). NIAAA says alcohol affects the whole body, not just the liver, including the brain, gut, pancreas, lungs, heart, and immune system (NIAAA).

Heavy drinking can lead to liver problems ranging from fatty liver to hepatitis and cirrhosis (NIAAA). Long-term heavy drinking can weaken the heart muscle, and alcohol misuse over time can cause pancreatitis, a painful swelling of the pancreas (NIAAA).

Even 1 drink a day can raise a woman’s risk of breast cancer by 5% to 15% compared with not drinking (NIAAA). More than 20,000 people in the U.S. die from alcohol-related cancers each year (CDC). The CDC says the less you drink, the lower your risk (CDC).

Is it dangerous to stop drinking suddenly?

Yes, it can be. When someone who has been drinking heavily for a long time suddenly stops, withdrawal can be painful or even life-threatening (NIAAA). NIAAA advises seeking medical help to plan a safe recovery, because doctors can prescribe medicines that make withdrawal safer (NIAAA).

Common withdrawal symptoms include anxiety, shakiness, irritability, sweating, headache, trouble sleeping, nausea and vomiting, and a fast heart rate (MedlinePlus). The more often you drink, the more likely you are to have withdrawal symptoms when you stop (MedlinePlus). Learn more in symptoms of alcohol withdrawal.

Delirium tremens (DTs) is a severe form of withdrawal that can cause sudden, severe confusion, fever, hallucinations, and seizures (MedlinePlus). It is a medical emergency that needs a hospital stay (MedlinePlus). Most people who go through alcohol withdrawal fully recover, but death is possible, especially if DTs occur (MedlinePlus).

Call 911 or go to the emergency room if a person in withdrawal has seizures, fever, severe confusion, hallucinations, or an irregular heartbeat (MedlinePlus). If you think you are in withdrawal, contact a provider right away or go to the ER (MedlinePlus).

People with moderate-to-severe withdrawal may need care in a hospital or treatment facility, while mild-to-moderate withdrawal can often be treated as an outpatient with someone staying with you (MedlinePlus). For a side-by-side look, see medical detox vs. home detox and how long alcohol withdrawal lasts.

What treatments work for alcohol addiction?

Three types of treatment have research behind them: behavioral treatments (counseling), medicines approved by the FDA, and mutual-support groups (NIAAA). They can be used alone or together, and no single approach works for everyone (NIAAA). Talking to a primary care provider is an important first step, since they can refer you and prescribe medicines (NIAAA).

Behavioral treatments help you change drinking habits through counseling with a health care provider (NIAAA). Examples include cognitive-behavioral therapy, motivational enhancement, contingency management, couples and family counseling, brief interventions, and mindfulness-based approaches (NIAAA).

Medicines help people stop or cut back and avoid a return to drinking. There are 3 FDA-approved medicines, and all of them are nonaddictive (NIAAA).

Mutual-support groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and other 12-step programs offer peer support for quitting or cutting back (NIAAA). Meetings are available in most communities at low or no cost, including online (NIAAA).

To find care, the free NIAAA Alcohol Treatment Navigator helps adults find alcohol treatment for themselves or an adult loved one. It has no commercial sponsors (NIAAA Navigator). NIAAA also suggests asking whether a program offers medicine and treats mental health issues together with alcohol problems (NIAAA).

How long does alcohol treatment take?

There is no set length, because AUD is a chronic, relapsing disorder and recovery is an ongoing process (NIAAA). Many people picture 28-day inpatient programs, but NIAAA says there are many other options (NIAAA). For many people, continued follow-up with a treatment provider is key to long-term recovery (NIAAA).

Source for settings: NIAAA.

Setbacks are common, and NIAAA says a return to drinking can be seen as a temporary setback, not a failure (NIAAA). For typical program lengths, see how long rehab for alcohol lasts.

How can you help someone who drinks too much?

Your support can make a big difference, but your loved one is ultimately responsible for managing their own illness (NIAAA). NIAAA suggests these steps:

• Take care of yourself. Caring for someone with an alcohol problem is stressful, so seek support from friends, family, or support groups (NIAAA).
• Be patient. Changing long-standing patterns is hard and takes repeated efforts (NIAAA).
• Notice progress. A word of appreciation for a success can go a long way (NIAAA).
• Consider family therapy. Strong family support through family therapy raises the chances of staying sober compared with individual counseling alone (NIAAA). See family therapy after addiction treatment.

If your loved one drinks heavily and wants to quit, encourage them to see a doctor first rather than stopping suddenly on their own (NIAAA).

How many people have alcohol use disorder, and how many die from alcohol?

In 2024, 27.9 million people ages 12 and older in the U.S. (9.7%) had AUD in the past year, according to the National Survey on Drug Use and Health (NIAAA). During 2020 and 2021, excessive drinking caused about 178,000 deaths each year (CDC).

Alcohol problems also affect families. About 1 in 10 children live in a home with a parent who has AUD (NIAAA). For more on alcohol and its effects, visit our alcohol page.

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